Sunday, January 9, 2011

Everything I know about life I learned from BREAST CANCER?!?!?

My battle with breast cancer has taught me more than a few lessons...here are some of the biggies...

  • I am not the sum of my parts
  • The world is full of incredibly good-hearted people
  • Breast cancer does not negotiate. It is wholly in charge
  • I dont look good bald
  • I am strong beyond my own belief
  • Being vulnerable is more difficult for me than being strong
  • Every family has a breast cancer story (or sadly will have)
  • Chemotherapy is a necessary evil but an evil nonetheless
  • Nose hair is hugely taken for granted
  • Healing happens in its own time. But it happens
  • Family & friends are forever interwoven into the tapestry of my life
  • Like labour & delivery -- everyone's breast cancer experience is the same yet different
  • Hugs are magic
  • Life is fragile
  • When you really believe you are going to die - - what you have accumulated never enters your mind. Your thoughts are singularly about the people you may leave behind
  • Sharing my story out loud keeps me out of my own head. Sometimes a scary place
  • Laughter really is the best medicine (ok maybe not the best but a close second to a Merlot)
  • I now know who I can count on to be there in a crisis. And who I can't
  • Why me? is not the question. Why anyone? is
  • Prayers help
  • Friends are the family you chose for yourself
  • More frightening than the fear that I will have to go thru treatment again is the terror that someone else I love may have to

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